i sometimes feel gender feelings but when i think about writing them down, i imagine all of the ways it might be misinterpreted and then i feel tired and don't write any of them down.

cis - straight - white - 30 or 40 years old
clojure programmer
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i sometimes feel gender feelings but when i think about writing them down, i imagine all of the ways it might be misinterpreted and then i feel tired and don't write any of them down.
My wife hasn’t erased herself from the internet but she did switch to a flip phone and has experienced such a positive life change that I’m actually in the process of buying such a phone for myself.
i accidentally got nerd sniped and wrote up a patch to fix this. i suspect it wouldn't be accepted for fear of breaking existing code, but maybe we could at least print some warnings
i gotta find a different hobby than "write patches for clojure that will be rejected" lmao